SEX IN LIFE ....

SEX IN LIFE ....

Posted By AFALATOON_007 on Sat, 30/08/2008 - 17:46
 Is sex the most important thing in life ? 

In my opinion, it's not the most important, but it's definitely high up on the list. Now in a relationship, yes. Sex is the most important thing in a relationship to most people. I believe sex and chemistry are the two most important aspects of a relationship. If you don't feel chemistry with the person, sex means nothing. It's nothing but a physicality you can have with anyone. But if you are connected to that person and care for that person, it makes sex all the better and more important.

 Sex & the Modern Woman 

Sex is important to the world’s women – but they want better communications with their partner and more spontaneity… please!

Three quarters of women rate sex as important in their lives, according to a worldwide survey carried out earlier this year. Women state that sex strengthens their relationships and makes them feel that they are attractive to their partner.

Bayer, an international pharmaceutical company, commissioned the research to find out how women feel about their sex lives. Over 12,000 women from 12 different countries took part in the research and their combined responses offer a comprehensive picture of women’s views of sex and their enjoyment of it.

The study also explored the impact of male sexual dysfunction or erectile dysfunction (ED) on women’s experience of sex and their relationship. It found that three quarters of women surveyed believe that ED can deeply affect their partnership.

 Is Sex Important? 

We all like some good sex but when you're in a relationship or marriage it kind of dies.Today in the world it seems like everything revolve around sex. So what do you do? Do you accept your not having that much sex or are you stupid enough to turn the corner and go somewhere else for your adventure? What do you rather have good sex or the best love?

 Sex Plays Important Role in Life

 A recent global study of sexual attitudes and behaviour has found that an overwhelming portion of adults worldwide believe sex plays an important part in their overall life.

More than 80 percent of men and 60 percent of women aged 40 to 80 surveyed say sex is important. And 57 percent of men and 51 percent of women who have had sex in the past year still have sex at least one to six times a week.

More than 26,000 adults in 28 countries were surveyed as part of the Global Study of Sexual Attitudes and Behaviours.

According to initial findings, almost 90 percent of people in South Korea said that sex was moderately, very or extremely important in their overall life, while only 38 percent in the Hong Kong region said the same.

More than 70 percent of respondents in Italy said they had sex one to six times a week,

 How to TALK to your partner about SAFER SEX 

Whether you choose to have sex or not, it is important to be able to talk about sex. It can be uncomfortable to have direct conversations about sex, but it does get easier if you are confident about your facts. Bottom line: When it comes to sex, good communication is important, with friends, health care providers, parents/family, and your boyfriend or girlfriend.

 

If a couple is going to have sex, it's important for them to talk things over first. They need to discuss topics like their sexual boundaries and contraception so they can protect themselves against pregnancy and STDs. It's important that couples ask each other about STDs. But remember, since others can't always be counted on to be honest about their STD status - especially because they may not even know they have one - using condoms for protection - always - is very important.

 

Of course, if you have an STD, it's good to be honest. Not only will it help you take the right precautions to protect your health and your partner's health - by either abstaining from intercourse until an outbreak is over or practicing safer sex - it also shows your partner that you care for and respect him or her. Chances are, your partner will appreciate your truthfulness, and such honesty may even strengthen the emotional bond between you.

 

Here are some tips professionals offer about how to have that talk.

 

Choose a time and place that's relaxed and comfortable before you get intimate (ideally that means before you take your clothes off!).

Be sure to arm yourself with facts so that you can answer any questions your partner may have. You might want to start the conversation on a positive note - for example, by telling your partner that you really care for him or her and that's why you want to discuss something important. If part of what you want to tell your partner is about an STD you have, you might say that last year, you found out you carry HPV, or that you just learned that you have chlamydia and you want him or her to get checked out. If you have genital herpes, you might explain that you sometimes get sores in the genital area.

Keep it simple and just give the facts about symptoms, treatment, how the disease is spread, and how you can protect each other. This is a difficult conversation that will likely stir up a lot of emotions, but try to think of this as simply sharing vital information.

 

Then give your partner some time and space to digest the news. After all, it probably took you a while when you first heard. Offer to provide more information or an STD hotline number. With time, most people take the news pretty well and don't let it stand in the way of the relationship (and if they don't take it well, it's better to find out before the relationship goes too far.) With everything that's been learned in recent years about STDs and their transmission, it's entirely possible for people with an STD to have a satisfying sex life without passing infection to their partners.

 

"Rest I Will update  later"